Tuesday, April 19, 2011

And Realty Sets In...

Today I realized wedding planning was not at ALL it was cracked up to be. I went into my first month, level headed, completely logical, --and bam--I find a dress I love and it all goes to hell.

Let's rewind to March 17th, where all this began. My lovely, then boyfriend, decided to pop the question on the front steps of our newly finished home, complete with a handmade box and 2c cushion cut custom made ring. A girl could just die, right? Of course I said yes-- who could turn down a handsome man with a tear in his eye? I gave myself the entire night to be excited and promised myself, as any soon to be college graduate with back to back exams for the next month and a half, to NOT pursue any wedding plans until I graduate. Guess how long that lasted?

As each day passed, I allotted myself time on the knot.com, bought a bridal magazine every trip to Publix and then, finally asked my maid of honor if we should go dress shopping--just to browse of course--to see what shape dress looked best on my body. She said yes.

Worst. Plan. Ever.

Maybe I'm a bit cynical about this whole wedding process (I blame my wonderful, yet frugal father), but I thought trying on dresses this soon was entirely too premature for a wedding almost a year away and with the price tag of a vintage car, (beat up, yes, but a car nonetheless) was insane. BUT trying to fit the part and with an urge to procrastinate from my studies, I made an appointment with my local boutique, brought pictures of what I liked  based on what I'd seen on the internet and what suited my style. "No satin," I screamed..."vintage lace for a garden wedding," I insisted. With 6 dresses ready to try for fun, I asked for the ivory satin dress in the storefront window--again, just for fun.  The first dress was stylish, fashion forward, but not "the one." Duh. This was just a test run, of course I wasn't going to find anything I like.

Then it happened. Dress 2 left me speechless. I pranced out of that dressing room like a six year old girl in her first princess dress from Disney. No other dress could trump this beauty. I think I decided in my heart right then and there I wasn't going to leave without that dress. Truth be told, 1 week, 5 family witnesses, 1 way too pushy saleswoman, and $4800 later, the dress, a pair of Swarovski crystal pumps, and a cathedral veil were mine. All mine. Yippee.

And this is what I ended up with:

Exhibit A.
Lazaro 3018
And I rest my case. Stunning. Breathtaking. Elegant. All with a hint of vintage glamour.

And way too damn expensive.

So begins my intoxicating obsession with wedding planning.